"My Man on Willpower " is a song by American singer Sabrina Carpenter from her seventh studio album, Man's Best Friend (2025). She wrote it with Amy Allen , Jack Antonoff and John Ryan and produced it with Antonoff and Ryan.
Composition "My Man on Willpower" is a Eurodisco song[ 1] that includes country elements,[ 2] [ 3] [ 4] handclaps[ 4] and an ascending progression.[ 5] It has been compared to ABBA in regard to style.[ 5] [ 6] The song opens with "thrusting Depeche Mode synths," before introducing a pedal steel flourish.[ 7] In a tongue-in-cheek, comic manner,[ 8] [ 9] Carpenter vents her frustration about a boyfriend who has lost his sexual desire for her,[ 1] [ 3] [ 4] [ 8] [ 9] [ 10] [ 11] [ 12] [ 13] having restrained himself due to his self-actualization and being overly focused on improving himself.[ 3] [ 11] [ 12] [ 13]
Critical reception Jason Lipshutz of Billboard ranked "My Man on Willpower" as the eighth best song from Man's Best Friend , writing "Carpenter balances crooning and punchlines with aplomb, never tipping the song too much towards comedy to betray the genuine emotion at its core."[ 4] Tara Hepburn of The Skinny called the song an "infectious, knowing bop."[ 14] Jon Caramanica of The New York Times stated that on the song, "Carpenter's syllables feel crammed into awkward spaces."[ 15] Mary Chiney of Beats Per Minute commented on the song, "its appeal is in how it doesn't try too hard, a rare pause in an album that thrives on excess."[ 16]
Carpenter debuted "My Man on Willpower" live on November 10, 2025, at the Scotiabank Arena in Toronto . The performance took place during the "Spin the Bottle" segment of the Short n' Sweet Tour , in which Carpenter performs a surprise song selected at random. This appearance marked the first time the track was performed live.[ 17]
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